So, I have the opportunity to study abroad and my family is totally on board as long as I can get my scholarship or the GI Bill to cover it. The way both of those work, a summer semester (which would be ideal) is pretty much out of the question. That leaves my senior fall or spring semesters. I really want to walk and there aren’t any programs that would get me back in time for graduation so that leaves the fall semester.
As y’all know, I go to Alabama. Arguably, the biggest football school in the country. So fall semester is a pretty big deal but would I be dumb to not study abroad when this is my last football season? I feel like yes but then I love my school in this football team but, then again, the team will still be there - living abroad will not.
I wanted to go to Australia or South Africa but there’s no affordable program that I can find that my scholarship would cover. I’m leaning toward Glasgow, Scotland because my school has an exchange program with them. Thoughts? Has anyone been? There’s also a bunch of schools in England but Scotland just seems more appealing to me. I’d prefer Dublin but there isn’t a program :/
beyonce took “bow down/i been on”, a song derided by white feminists™ for being degrading to women and then extended it into her own little womanist manifesto with african feminist Chimamanda Ngozi Adiche’sspeech ON THE TRACK
My best friend and I are no longer friends. After what I went through last year, this is nothing. I don’t have time to fight for people who don’t want to be around or don’t want to put in any effort. It’s ending cordially but it still sucks that it’s ending at all.
We talk about “biblical families,” “biblical marriage,” “biblical economics,” “biblical politics,” “biblical values,” “biblical stewardship,” “biblical voting,” “biblical manhood,” “biblical womanhood,” even “biblical dating” to create the impression that the Bible has just one thing to say on each of these topics - that it offers a single prescriptive formula for how people of faith ought to respond to them.
But the Bible is not a position paper. The Bible is an ancient collection of letters, laws, poetry, proverbs, histories, prophecies, philosophy and stories spanning multiple genres and assembled over thousands of years in cultures very different from our own.
What’s the point of opening up to someone and being 100% real if, when you doing that, they start running in the other direction? Outside of your family are there actually people you can be 100% honest with? I’m starting to think that the answer to that question is no. People don’t want the truth. They want sugar-coated half-truths or lies. They want the smile. The laugh. They want you to praise them and tell them how great you are. They want to talk shit about people to you but hope/demand you never say anything negative about them because that’s honesty. Everyone has negative aspects and as much as they claim to want honesty, they don’t actually want to hear it. Does this look good on me? Is this a good design? My teacher should’ve liked this, right? I'm the best right? I don’t need to change anything, right?
At your own risk answer honestly - that’s how you lose friends.
THIS IS ACTUALLY WHAT I DO TO JARED AND I JUST DIED. THIS IS GREAT.
What I mean:You are one of the best friends I've ever had. The level on which we connect baffles me. I'm so so happy that I can share my interests, secrets, guilt, faults, joys, and insecurities with you in confidence and receive encouragement to improve and keep being better, and I'm comfortable with the ease with which I can reciprocate those feelings and that support to you as well. We make a great team and I'm really fortunate to have you in my life.